Hi Wonder! I saw you posted on my thread. Thanks so much! and people have been telling me to post over here in MLC, so I found a few of my old posts and I will link them here.

MLC friends...What Wonder says here is very true. DB teaches us to take care of ourselves first and formost. The process of DBing makes us stronger for whatever comes our way.
If you are interested in my story and my survival tactics, here are some links:
Summary of my journey....Started in 2001!

SG's Survival Tips

How to detatch!

The Bell Jar

Ten reasons to enjoy separation!

Well, some of these were written in a spirit of doing something to lift my spirits... I hope you find something useful here and I wish each and every one of you the best of luck in dealing with your Walk Away MLC spouse.

Oh, BTW...I think my H wasn't really in a MLC after all. But the techniques here work to make you stronger and are worthwhile.

Take care,
SG


Survival Goddess
"The most common way people give up their power is by thinking they don't have any." -Alice Walker