If it creates a problem in your M, then it's a problem. If it makes you uncomfortable, then it is a problem. I also don't believe that looking at porn is "natural" for men and that "everybody does it". To say that he does it because you don't give him sex is horsesh*t! How does he play hide the sausage with a computer screen? Give me a break. Now, if there are issues re: sex in your M then this is a good time to address them together. Forget blaming and look at how this can be fixed TOGETHER. I think in DR there is a section on porn addiction, you should take a look. Remember you are not responsible for what your H chooses to do anymore than he is responsible for your choices. Don't fall for that nonsense.
