Wow! Talk about being in a tough situation, a baby coming and a H leaving. I must say, you do sound great for what you are dealing with. let me guess, your friends all say "leave the bum", "you deserve better than this" (and you do!). It is very difficult to fight for your M when everybody thinks "dump the bum". First of all, they see your pain and they want it to end for you. Of course, the fastest and easiest way, in their minds, is to end the M. I'll bet you've heard "make sure he never sees the baby" etc. I hope they also see what an amazing person you are to even consider staying with this guy. I think you are DBing well here. Set yourself some small goals and try some stuff to get there (wow, that was profound wasn't it! ). It must be so hard to keep your mind on the baby right now. But, that child will be the LOVE of your life, with or without him. You've got an amazing adventure ahead of you so try hard to enjoy it. I hope others have more inspirational guidance than I have here. Keep us posted. P.S. What kind of bitch gets involved with a man who's W is expecting their first child? Boggles the mind! Boy, he sure bagged himself a winner, didn't he.
). It must be so hard to keep your mind on the baby right now. But, that child will be the LOVE of your life, with or without him. You've got an amazing adventure ahead of you so try hard to enjoy it. I hope others have more inspirational guidance than I have here. Keep us posted.
