Me: (H) 34 M: 11yrs 2 kids I am in the same boat. Although the last couple of months it been zilch! I go out with my buddies, and feel (who really knows) I could go as far as I want. But I don't. I've tried to take her out, but she is not the same person when we were dating.
I read the books (and continue reading) and have listened to keeping love alive. we are also talking to a DB coach. But there is this wall that she put up and I can not penitrate it. not sure what to do. While I don't have an answer for you, your not alone. as men I think our wives sometimes think is all about sex. But I would like some passion. sometimes just holding each other is enough for me. other times I want to be wild. But when the other S seems distant and emotionless it makes it hard.
Hang in there
M - 35
W - 37
kids- 2 D9 & S7
Married 11 years
BOMB 8/9/06
