Glad to see you busted your divorce. I wish all of us we're this lucky! Did your wife ever tell you that she didn't love you anymore and that she married you for the wrong reasons? My H told me he wasn't in love with me anymore. I have not seen my H in 3 months and haven't spoken to him in 2 months. I won't see him until mediation Oct.16th. I am trying to detach and go dark. He says he doesn't miss me at all. So I don't know if any of this will work. Please give me some advice as to what you did that worked and your W noticed. Thanks!