The lighting o' the lightbulbs

[cinemanymph]

Karen,

I suppose I should be hurt by the mere thought that my H doesn't desire me, but I am not. It goes a long way to explain a lot of his behavior and it gives me a starting point to begin to heal. It's exciting to finally know why we are having problems connecting and that the solution is so simple. Even if I asked H, "do you want me ?", H would say of course and miss my point completely. I don't believe he is any more aware of his behavior then I was of mine, so asking him is moot.