Be careful with this line of thinking. I have often thought this exact same thing in those exact same words. It isn't a fruitful line of thought. I have even directly said this to my H who said, "That simply isn't the case." He didn't say he desired me, didn't elaborate, nothing. I have concluded that he honestly does believe that he desires me, it doesn't feel like it but that is my problem isn't it? He shows me in the way he feels comfortable. Are you sure this isn't the case with your H?
