GS:
With regards to what MrsNop picked up on, my recommendation is to buy a refrigerator with an icemaker. Life is too short to refill ice cube trays. And yeah, empty the trash when you notice it needs it, but, on the other hand, does that job have your name, and your name only, engraved on it?

I am totally tracking you, dude. Especially that feeling you get when you're lying in bed next to her and you're thinking how great it would be to ML, but, at the same time, dreading the experience. To me, the reality of ML with W bears no resemblance to anything I should be eagerly anticipating.

One final word about her "reasoning" that she can't get pregnant since she's over 40. You know what they call women like that? "Mommy." And you'll be "Daddy" unless you insist on BC or get yourself snipped. My vote is for the vasectomy. If you change your mind, it is possible to get it reversed, and there is always the possibility of adoption.

Sucks to be us, my friend.

Hairdog