Hi Geek- of course we will read ALL and ANYTHING you post! That's what we're here for.
I don't have any advice, just empathy. ((((Geek))))
Change the genders of the parties in this paragraph and I can totally relate
Quote: So, as Friday rolls around other guys in the class I'm attending are getting excited and saying things like "I'm gonna get laid tonight - can't wait!" - and I'm thinking "not me, I'm going to get home to a tired woman who has been working 24x7 since I left and will have NO interest in sex..."
I remember that in my book club, the husband of one of the ladies had been in Iraq for six months (he's a doctor in the Army), and when he got home, they took a vacation to Hawaii with their kids. She also dropped those "reunion" comments, and I was just eaten up with envy.
And also this
Quote: I am praying that she WILL NOT touch me or want sex - while at the SAME time I'm dying from lack of sex - I don't think anyone can understand how this feels except for you guys here on this board.
This sometimes happens with me/us in the morning... I'm hoping and NOT hoping at the same time that he'll start something. And just when I get my mind in a place where I think his is going to start something, and I'm thinking, "oh boy!" he'll say, "I need some coffee!" and jump out of bed. In case you're thinking, "why don't you start something?" I used to-- when we first got together I woke him with a bj most mornings-- but he still would rather get up and drink coffee.
