I did tell her that our lack of connection had caused me to not be in the mood. She feels that while the first 36 hours were rough, she was very pleasant the last 12 and as such I should want to have sex with her - the fact that I did not is only explained (in her opinion) by a desire on my part to inflict pain and suffering on her.
I only give her ground on these statements because I know for a fact that if I am horny and she says some nasty critical thing I can hear a voice in my head say "well, who wants to have sex with YOU - not me..."
