i gotta work hard on getting rid of that 3rd person there for sure!!
You just gave me an idea--or at least a partial idea! When I thought H and I were going to get divorced I bought a bottle of wine called "Menage a trois". I had it planned to give it to him the day of our D with a note that I hoped he wouldn't forget me (thought that might drive ow wild!). Anyway, the bottle is still in my closet. There ought to be a way to use this bottle to get rid of the thoughts of ow for good. Any ideas???