I called OW#1. H was denying that anything happened with her. She spilled it all when I told her I caught him in a hotel with OW#2. Said he lied to her...as if he could be trusted when she knew he was lying to me?!
Too many details are hell, and we fret over them much more than our S's do. But knowing what I'm dealing with is so much easier than worrying and wondering. I think I'm ready now to let the snooping pass. Although most of it fell in my lap without too much effort.
Now to just learn to let go and keep it in the past...You're giving me so much inspiration--thank you for your courage and strength!
