I just spoke to my girlfriend about this subject today too,, I explained that now that hubby has new cell I do not want access to his bill etc, etc,,
...it will be better just to let go and believe in him . I do not want to be a P.I. anymore it is too exhausting.LOL I have better things to do now,, but I do agree somehow as "crazy" as it sounds it sort of tells a story... when I confronted my hubby @ 4 am while he was sleeping here ( came to see kids )for Fathers Day @ "OW", I noticed (on the bill) he started calling her alot lesss and me alot more....also when he told me he cut off contact with her the bill confirmed it,, plus I never confronted him @ the bill, so he has no idea..
...just like the mottto will what I am @ to do bring me closer to my goal/ my M being restored and my self worth being intact?If the answer was No I did not do it.. so the info was not for me to crucify him , he had already done that to himself!!!!!!! .... it was for me to see with my own eyes if my heart was telling me the truth and if My H was telling me the truth too... But overall snooping does hurt...instead of looking for evidence I agree it feels so much better to love him. God bless....
