I read back in June when I snooped on hubbies phone that they were planning on getting married et

I have to say that this brought back a lot of bad bad memories! I recently took one of H's old mobile phone for S9 and as I was clearing up the messages, I saw so many texts from ow and from H. They were planning to go away somewhere far, start anew..have little Lauren running in their backyard, etc etc. That was very very hurtful, as Lauren was the name that WE were gonna use if we ever had a daugher. And the nerve of him to use it with the b!t@h. Of course, I couldn't hold it in. I confronted H..and all he managed to say was "I have not used that phone for more than a year. That was before".. Yes...indeed those messages were in June 2005. When he wanted to move away....(I looked back into my past posts... he was very adamant to leave us then...)

As you said it, Alimari...they were INSANE then!!!

Time to move on, gals... and stop with the snooping???

Sorry for the hijack, Cat03.....