the argument we had was about him not helping out again, that I do 100% of the chores (ok, he only comes home for 2 days, but please!!!) and that I didn't go back to the old resentment, and he just didn't think I had any justification! H is like: "we are having an argument we dont' have to have" meaning for HIM:"just keep doing what you are doing and don't upset me with your problems and all be well" which in turns would mean me still slaving and him relaxing not helping at all.
We ended up agreeing he'd at least do ONE chore a day (which he still thinks it's one too many) but I'm just tired of cooking all the meals AND wash the dishes and still do HIS laundry and still clean the whole house and him thinking he doesnt' have to lift a finger when he is home. I know the training is tough but please! I'm not exactly sitting on my arse while the nanny and the cook do everything, I'm alone during the week with both kids and in charge of everything all the time.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
