I kind of worry about this too now that my husband has started moving back in. I have my cheat information on the computer as well and the other day he was over helping our son access a math website. I had to leave and pick up another child, but the thought about him seeing this stuff on the computer occurred to me too.

Even worse, last night one of my friends who is going through divorce called and he could hear me talking with her and giving her advice about calming down after a situation with her husband. Yikes!!!!

My guess about this idea of a hollywood reconciliation. I think a lot of us imagine it and hope for it, but it's just not typically like that. Sometimes you get a little "honeymoon-like" period, but I think the reality is that there it's not an easy transition and there's a slew of emotions (both good and bad).


There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.