The Little Black Book

[BeingMe]

Don't be hard on yourself, Cat. So, you went back on your word about asking, however, it is unreasonable for your H to hold you to that, IMHO. Did he not go back on, not only his word, but his vows before God? I think he is exhibiting some double standards here, and he is not the one betrayed.

So, chin up, and keep moving forward. Eventually, he is going to have to come clean, in order to reestablish trust, if that is what his intentions are. I know I probably sound like a stuck grammophone (sp?), but continue to GAL, detach from his drama (or lack of communication), be kind to yourself, and know that you will be okay, no matter what happens.

Take care!