Both Kohls and Mervyns are having the BEST sales right now!!! I hide things in the back of the car too... or sneak them into the garage. Hee hee!!!! Here's to shopping secrets (heck, it's not like I really spend THAT much!!!).
I have to tell you Cat, I have a somewhat similar situation.... except I learned that this guy who has a crush on me is married (I did post about it on the separation board. It was kind of funny because everyone was worried that I might actually fall for this guy. I have to say, there have been MANY more men I've met during this divorce who I'd be much more likely to fall for than this guy. I have a long list of guys I'd choose before him!!!! ). But the thing that really upset me was imagining the paralells in my own marriage. That my husband may have idealized OW the same way this guy seems to idealize me (telling me over and over how beautiful I am, remembering every word I've told him, looking for me every week at this place my girlfriends and I sometimes go to... eeek!). I barely know this person and have never indicated any interest in him beyond that of an aquaintance. Anyhow, I did tell my husband about him and if I run into him again I'll tell him exactly what I think about married men who do this kind of thing.
Anyhow, you stay strong. We've come too far to be side-tracked by this kind of garbage.
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
