Hi Cat, I am so glad your H got tested.I know that makes you feel better.It seemed to take alot of persuasion on your part,but you know what........he did it and he could of chose not to. -Piecing is not an easy thing.Even after 6 yrs., i still have my moments where old feelings creep back.It is really hard to just keep my mouth shut.I still think it was the best thing for me and my family and it does get better. -Oh and i completely agree,PMS is a BIG factor.My C even said she had to take some meds at that time,because she got so bad herself.It is not easy being us,is it.My H's sex drive changed after his A also,It was more!!! So imagine trying to feel you had to keep up w/that.I felt if i didn't give it to him more he would go back to OW,and alot of the time i didn't even want him touching me.It all sucks and you will feel darned if you do,-darned if you don't.You just take one day at a time.It does get easier and then things find a normal balance once again.Take care.K
