it is really hard to believe that you were in such denial about your husband. almost every woman automatically assumes there is OW in the picture when their husband leaves them.and there you go ASSuming things about what he is thinking.this is what will get you in trouble...your desire what about his now that you have brought up the testing so many months after the affair. don't even think it isn't bothering him the way you have handled it. why couldn't the 2 of you have gone together to get tested? go to someplace and make it a point to stop pressuring him. yes it is important but your line of thinking has to stop.
