finally_free, he hid the A altogether when he came back, I only found out he had someone 2mths after he came, and even then I didn't know it was a PA until a third month passed or I would've made it a condition.
TL, I totally agree w/you. It has been a horrible road but which has taught me so much, I'll never know what exactly H got out of it but he won't be resenting me or blaming me for all this troubles anymore. We would've been coasting by the skin of our teeth had this not happened, just white washing over the misunderstanding and the fights. And over all, it has put me closer to God, I pray everynight my H comes back to Him.When I met him he always put God first, he's seen so much uglyness he's still yet to lift his head up to see Him.
Well, we had a talk, didnt' start well, treated me like a pesky mosquito, I was getting exasperated, etc etc. Ended up TM for an hr w/him telling me he will get tested as soon as he gets his schedule from school, they do have an erratic schedule and this week has been specially horrible for him (the instructor threaten w/throwing him out) if he looses this job -they pay him- we would be horribly ruined and I'm pretty sure he'd loose it, he's worked so hard to get to this school.
So, I'll see after this week if I can find him a clinic/dr open on weekends. Thanks all for your support, I'd go batty if I didnt' come here.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
