I don't want to freak you out, but you need to listen to this:
The reason my wife dropped the bomb in July is because she had somehow gotten genital herpes from OM...her doctor said is was probably transferred orally (from him) to her via oral sex, and is genital with her.
Her words to me on DDay: "as rotten as I've been, I couldn't knowingly continue having sex with you knowing I have this."
One of my biggest hurdles to get over with my W has been that she exposed me to another man's biology for 3 years unbeknownst to me. That's really a violent act when you think about it.
Her justification: he was a clean, respectable (hmmm) person who didn't jump from bed to bed (although he had cheated on his first wife, and cheated on his second wife with my wife), so she assumed no risk.
Yet she got what she got, and most likely gave it to me 18 months ago, but didn't see any real external signs until June, although she had other symptoms all along.
You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means. -- Inigo Montoya, 'The Princess Bride'
