well, called our C and told him the situation. He agreed w/you A_14, if he wont' do it to do it myself. To bring it up without blaming, and just lay down the facts and say that we can't have sex until he does it. Sad part is, I'm the one who's dying for sex, he could take it or leave it, the man who would'nt leave me alone now isn't that interested. The sex strike would mostly hurt me.
How sad, I'm the one who's a bit aprehensive about how we might feel and all this because he fooled around with a slut, that's life for you.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.