Cat,Hi. That was me that posted about the sex like porn.Also,i also went for STD testing for myself.You know my H never has told me if he really got tested.I won't bring it up after all these yrs.,but i continue to have my yearly physicals,blood work ,etc.I know my Doctor pretty good after 16 yrs.,and i trust him to know and tell me if anything is different.I am proud of you taking care of yourself,and just keep up your exams. People in A's are so wierd.They always think "Oh,he or she can't have STD's" Not somebody they picked? They just don't get the whole,who else they slept with or their spouse,etc. They think for a short while that the other person is wonderful,can do no wrong.I had to hear how the OW's H treated her so bad,and she had the prettiest little girl.Which bothered me because H wanted our 2nd child to be a girl and he's a boy.They just act so stupid during this phase.So just take care of you and your kids.I can tell by your posts that you are a strong lady.Hang in there,K
