The Little Black Book

[cat03]

well, wasn't going to remind H about his promise (more than a month ago) to go see a dr 'til the end of the week, but I did it last night.

I said "if you get out of practice early, maybe you can make an appt to see the dr for next week, sometimes they dont' have slots for days"
And, oh boy, he got pissed off "I didn't call you to get harassed, I dont' have for that... I dont' think I'll be able to do it"
I reminded him he promised, did he really mean it? I asked, then I screwed up, I told him how I knew she believed in open Rs and how I couldn' t understand he had unprotected sex"
He had a hissy fit telling me he wasnt' going to talk about that anymore, got to go and bye, I didnt' say a word before or after that, he hanged up.

He may /may not call, he'll prob tell me he isnt' coming this weekend "if he is going to get harrassed" this way, he's done that once before.

Am I wrong? he won't say WHEN he got tested, he won't make an appt, what the heck else am I supposed to do. How can he be so sure about her? it baffles my mind, it drives me nuts because he's told me how he can't trust in ANYone now and he trusted her???? I doubt she got tested to show him she was clean.
From someone on this board I understand you need to wait 6mths to get tested in case something else shows up.

Well, another monkey wrench thrown into the already bumpy ride of reconciliation.