hey honey!!!! so nice to come to ol' crazy cat's thread, having a bit of a pity party right now
Quote: he needs to feel safe and loved. Or at least understood.
you are right, he doesnt' feel safe yet, I don't know about the other two, though I do try my hardest. Guess because he was shutting anything A related I was compelled to read, but you are right, I didnt' have to do it.
I'm much more calm. I will bring up the STD test again. He always refused to tell me when he got tested, i never understood why, I guess he didn't do it because a) he did it early in the R to prove HER he was safe b) in the middle of the R since she'd talk about "sharing" girlfriends.
It doesnt seem to me at least, that he got tested once it was over, so seeing what kind of slut she was I have a small fear we could've caught something from her. So, in a calm and non-bitchy way, I will remind him of HIS promise to get tested.
hugs gal)))))))) I do hope it happens, that one day he opens up to me.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
