I am all but in piecing. H and I had a rough summer, but he seems to be turning back to our M.
One of our major issues has been open communication, and of course, this includes sex.
I am a little embarrassed to say I have never had an orgasm w/H. He's not inept, it just doesn't seem to work. Our sex life until recently has been pretty vanilla...and even now, it's more like we're both feeling a little freer with exploration rather than being able to communicate about what we both want.
I kind of think this communication thing is the main stumbling block. For a long time I thought maybe he'd freak out if I communicated some of my needs, but I think it's also vice versa. I tend to be a little shy, but I've partners in the past who were really open, and I was an entirely different sexual being at that point.
Don't know what I'm asking exactly...maybe how to go about this. We ARE in MC, so I was thinking about bringing that up there. Any other ideas? I want our sex life to be better. I think he does too.
Ideas?
SD
Me: 40 H: 43 H had EA from 2/06-9/06 Bomb 5/06 Piecing since 9/2006 3/2008: Boundary setting 7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb. 8/2010: Marriage finally on track!
