I don't think mine should be over with b/c the whole divorce is silly and stupid. H divorcing me b/c I don't "fish and hunt and do things with him". Silly, but he thinks it's important. Either that or he has a GF. Oh I know I am working on detaching now, but I will probably always love my H. But what can I do? He doesn't love me anymore so I have to let go and if he comes back see where I stand then.