Quote: HOw do you think that? If they want to D us doesn't that show that they know nothing about committment? Do you think that D is the end or do you think it only means temporarily? There are no signs of my H coming back. His mind is completely made up. He is ready for the divorce and to move on with his life.
In large part, I'm talking about love and commitment on the LBS side of the equation. In my case, my H on the other side is a depressed, nutty MLCer who is also hell-bent on D. I have to let go of the M legally, I don't have a choice. But that doesn't mean I quit being the person he would want to return to if/when he exits the MLC fog. I don't have to quit loving him, even while detached.
Everyone's situation is different, and for some, maybe many, D is and should be the end. For mine, I'm not so sure.
