Final Separation Agreement signed...

[Ithinkicanithinkicanithinkican]

Hey spikecharlie- I've read a bit about your sitch and I know things really suck for you right now. One of the things we realize through the DBing process is that some people do not ever want reconciliation. It stinks and it hurts, but there it is. HOWEVER, only that individual knows for certain if he or she is willing to try to love again. If you feel like keeping up the fight- DO IT! The key here is that it's a personal decision, everyone needs to figure out at what point he or she is content to walk away from the fight. I will always love my H and there will always, for now, be a chance. That's me. I'm willing to overlook the hurt that this decision has caused. Others choose to try and move on with their lives, that's a good approach as well. You need to look into your heart and decide at what point you want to move on. I know in my case, H and I have a pretty good chance of getting back together after the D. This gives me hope. Some people have to go through the D process to reset their buttons and be available again to their spouses. Look inside and find the answer that works for you.