Wow, it's been 5 months since she dropped the bomb. We had to sign the final papers or go in front of the judge, so after months of wrangling, I signed them very hesitantly. W wanted D, and is in "love/lust" with OM. I tried so many things, even met with Michelle personally (what an amazing person she is). But now it's just a matter of waiting for the court to rubber stamp the D papers, which will likely happen this week (they are very fast in this county).
I'm so sad. Perhaps I should not be, but I sure am. Four kids, and 15 years of M.
I'm off to get the kids now and take them to church. ExW does not attend church anymore that I know, I think she can't take the heat that God puts on her because of the adultery.....
I wish I could wake up from this nightmare and tell her "honey, I had a terrible dream, but I want you to know that I love you and I'm going to treat you so well for the rest of our lives!". Hmmm... I wish she knew