Try not to worry about your H. He cannot love anyone until he loves himself. I have learned this about my W (BTW - I got served last night). She has low self-esteem and continues to look outward for her happiness.
Do like Dorothy would Emily - Get yourself some ruby red shoes - remind yourself that if you ever want to go searching for your hearts desire - you have to go no farther than your own backyard. Your happiness comes from within - so does your Hs. He will have to find this on his own - you cannot find it for him. Likewise - you will need to find yours...
"If you think you can, you can. If you think you can't, you're right." - Mary Kay Ash
"I have found that most people are about as happy as they make their minds up to be." - Abraham Lincoln
