Thanks singleagain but I'm not going in circles anymore.
Thanks to you too RB . . . BUT you didn't spend those two days with him . . . I did. You didn't see him cry over her. It was so sad . . . I felt awful for him. I just wanted to tell him to go home to her because him being that miserable made me feel like crap. I can't believe how disappointed in me he is. He is soo upset when he is with me. Miserable. He's just finally concluded that I wasn't right for him and he found the one that was.
It's simple really. I'm not freaking out. I can only move forward, there is no looking back anymore. Don't worry . . . I'll "leave him alone" . . . there's really no choice.
He's not going to change, nothing about the sitch is. He's been with her for almost a year and they've been living together. According to him the only reason they ever fight is because of me. They've never had a real fight about anything else. It's OK. He NEEDS to be happy . . . and she gives him that.