Alive And Kicking

[Sandy_wants_to_try]

I don't understand. You already know he's not coming tomorrow? And you can see to Monday? Wow. Where do you get your crystal ball? Mine didn't work when it got here... and no warranty, of course!!!

Emily, I find it incredible how you turn around the positive stuff people here send you to say "You're all right... I'm a piece of cr*p." It's fascinating to see how someone with such a poor image of themselves can take even a compliment and turn around to become a critism.

You don't understand what we're telling you to do because you don't pay attention. It's quite simple:

1. Stop calling. (no "I'm trying" No buts... you own your hands when they pick up the phone. You own your mouth when you say hello. Nobody is doing this for you. Do it, don't just try. When someone says they will try like that, it means they don't trust themselves to do it.)
2. Get a Life. Do stuff for yourself. Get to the park. Go to the library. Take a walk around the block. Simple things.
3. Live for yourself not for H or OW. Stop thinking that what they do controls your life.

Pay attention. Think about what these things mean. If you really don't understand something here, ask questions. Then pay attention to the answers.

Re-read your threads. It's all been repeated ad nauseum.