Emily, I've had two meetings with my lawyer and haven't filed for divorce. As a matter of fact, meeting with his lawyer on Monday means that it is unlikely that he will file then. That's IF he even shows up, Emily, which is unlikely.
Stop worrying about things that are out of your control anyway. Start working on the things that you CAN control.
The LORD is near to all who call on him, to all who call on him in truth." (Psalm 145:18)