3) That you think he's just running up and down the roads partying. Do you have any idea what it is like to be a truck driver? ANY AT ALL? No, you don't because if you did you would not call that man with all your bullsh*t. Sure he owes you more than you're getting but here's a freakin' wake up call for you, kid, HE OWES YOU MORE THAN HE HAS TO GIVE RIGHT NOW!
Back the hell up off the man and get a damn life, Emily! T2 is dead on when she tells you that you need to make him WANT to call you. You need to add a little mystery...make him think he's got something to fight his way back FOR. At this point, you are just a wet dishcloth that clings to him each time he makes contact. BACK OFF. If he calls you, fine, do NOT talk about the R. If he says he's coming home, say okay (then believe it when you see it). Whatever. Your job is to GET A LIFE OUTSIDE OF KEVIN AND THAT APARTMENT. When will you have your full driving privileges? What can you do to make that happen faster? THAT IS YOUR PRIORITY! STARTING NOW.
If you will focus your attention elsewhere, it will GET HIS. But when you start to do that, he calls and you are right back to where you started. BUT THAT IS YOUR DOING.
GROW UP, EMILY. GET A LIFE. STOP WAITING FOR HIM TO HAND YOU ONE.
And do not think we are going to let you blame this on hormones. Sure, that's a factor but moreso, it's your learned behavior that is so dysfunctional and destructive.
What are you learning? What HAVE you learned?
I want you to answer those questions and I don't want to hear that you have learned that "Kevin this" or "Kevin that" either.
