I sure hope you are right and he hasn't been talking to her. . . . .
You're probably right about him just not being ready to talk about US . . . . . I understand the guilt (at least I hope he is having guilt because that means the OW is truly out of the picture).
He keeps the convo's painfully short because he's always "busy" getting ready to go or something to do with his work.
Like I said we talked more when he was still with the OW. It's kind of sad!
I'm trying to sit back and be patient . . .. God made me a touch short on patience though