Quote: I used to snoop too and I have to tell you it does NO good. It effects your mood and that shows. It further fosters a atmosphere of distrust. Now, sure, your W MIGHT be acting distrustful - but you don't know that.
I know, I know, I know, yet I still do it! Two more VMs from him, one indicating that he got her email. I have been tearing myself up over this but am being very careful not to show W. I did come to a bit of an epiphany yesterday when I realized that no matter what an AH OM is, the issue is not with him, it is with W.
On the other hand, yesterday she called and invited me to go with her to an event she was attending (I did and we had fun). AND, last night before falling asleep, I said ILY for the first time in a while and she responded with ILY back! Still, no ML in a LOOOONG time.
