Quote: Once I started seeing my W was serious about working things out with me and maintaining NC with OM, and once I got a few good weeks of this under my belt, it seemed to start making a difference with W.
Thanks for the input. One of the main negatives I've got going here is that my W has not shown me that she is serious about maintaining NC with OM and start working on M. It's like she has just resigned herself to thinking that she will never be happy with her M again despite the fact we are getting along great and having fun together. This of course makes me concerned that she can again be open to OMs continued attempts to reignite things.
She is also somewhat discouraging any attempts I make to get a sitter and just go out with me one on one, depite that we always end up having a good time. It's almost like she is afraid that her true feelings for me will come back if given the chance.
