Yeah, like Sven I also believed she was too far gone and was probably out the door eventually, so that was a big factor in my decision making too. I figured she was so messed up that whether she stayed or went, for my boys' sake alone I would have to quit making excuses and just be the absolute best I could be.
Once I started seeing my W was serious about working things out with me and maintaining NC with OM, and once I got a few good weeks of this under my belt, it seemed to start making a difference with W. Still got a long way to go but I see a difference.
You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means. -- Inigo Montoya, 'The Princess Bride'
