Quote: If you are starting to lose credibility with your accusations, then you need to make sure you have enough information before you confront her.
I wanted to clarify what I meant by losing credibility. I did not mean that my accusations were wrong, they were, as a matter of fact, true. They were not based on speculation but on things I knew to be true.
I meant that I have a hard time enforcing (Poor choice of words, I know) my wants. For example, when I learned that she had seen OM and she admitted it, I insisted that she call him in my presence and tell him it was over. She refused and said she would call him in private. So, what do I do? That's what I mean, I can't do anything until I know what my response is going to be if she refuses to end it. That's what I mean about losing credibility.
The other non related question I had, mainly for the ladies that have had As, what made you feel most guilty? How can I use that to my advantage?
