Thanks to you both for your response. I do not want to mention him or the A at all as I want that to remain history. I did once see something about an Affair timeline in which there was a mourning period; any chance you recall the source for that? I'd love to review it again.

Regarding ML, I was thrilled a couple of nights ago when our hands touched while going to sleep and she kept hers there for quite a while before she rolled over. That's how long it's been. I don't know whether to start making moves or just to keep backing off and giving her some room for a while. My thinking is that if and when she does make a move, we are back on the right track.

Your Thoughts?