do you hold her hand? would she let you? do you kiss her goodnight? I started that way w/my H (a previously unquenchable man) who didn't iniate ML either. He did tell me days after that the first time we ML that it didnt' feel the same.
I took a break but I couldnt' just sit there, I initiated and he opened up, more and more. It isn't like before and it prob will take months before it is, but he is more receptive and loving.
She might still be grieving for the A that's over. So if you find her receptive start by hugging or cuddleing, warm her up a bit, as the mars-venus book says, the #1 thing women want is affection.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
