Hello all, I have been off the board since October of last year as my WAW came home to me. She had an E&PA prior to and during our separation but assured me “he was just a distraction” when she came back. We have done many things new but earlier this year I had suspicions, later confirmed, that she was speaking with him again (he lives 100 miles away.) I confronted her and we fought, but eventually, things calmed down.
A couple of months ago, I discovered that she met him at an event and completely lied to me about it. She readily admitted it and swore that she called him and told him never to call again. I am cautiously optimistic that she is in fact telling the truth.
After that incident, I insisted that we see a counselor. During the course of three sessions she was a royal B to me the entire time and when the counselor (after seeing her disdain for it) told her she did not have to come back, she has been very nice to me since.
We have been getting along great over the last five weeks or so but there is absolutely no intimacy, and I am scared to death that we will lose it again. (The last time she initiated ML was in March, and really not much has happened since then.)
I was a regular visitor to this site all last summer (in Infidelity section) and consider myself a success at DBing, now I need some help in following up. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
