Well, so much for a response from H regarding the separation papers. I asked him last night when he thought I would get a response and he said 'I have a lot of sh!t to do tonight', meaning he didn't want to talk about it. I said 'H, I don't want to have a discussion about it, I just want to know when' He said 'You should probably have your L draw up some real separation papers'. He went on to say that real separation agreements are around 16 pages (as opposed to our 4) and that there are so many loopholes in it that his L couldn't believe it came from an attorney and that it had 'malpractice' written all over it.
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I should have known. So, I will send him an email today telling him that if I don't get some written response from him by Wednesday (the original two week deadline) that I will proceed with the L. I also plan to tell him that I will not waste my time and/or money trying to come up with an agreement that suits him if he will not tell me specifically what he finds questionable with the draft I gave him.
"Happiness is a butterfly, which, when pursued, is always just beyond your grasp, but which, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you."