Hey Jabez, thanks so much for thinking of me. I hope all is going well for you and your girls.

Hopefully everyone is doing well and having good times with their families this holiday season.

I just wanted to post a little something and let everyone know I'm doing ok. This Wednesday will be two weeks since I gave H the draft separation papers. I gave H two weeks to get back to me, so hopefully I will have a response soon. I have an appt with a lawyer on Thursday and what I will accomplish with the lawyer that day will depend on whether or not I have a response from H yet.

The condo I wanted is still for rent, I'm hoping it holds out just a little longer. Cross your fingers for me because I've already got myself moved in in my mind, lol.

It's just been more of the same (except no fighting because I'm not taking bait at this point, just letting H be H) around my household and it's made me feel certain that I am making the right decision. Knowing I will be able to spend quality time with my kids and make my own decisions soon is keeping me quite docile.


"Happiness is a butterfly, which, when pursued, is always just beyond your grasp, but which, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you."

- Nathaniel Hawthorne