I've pretty much left the boards. Somehow "Jabez has left the boards" just doesn't have the same ring to it
The divorce is going forward, there's nothing else I can do. We went to one MC session and W said that if the subject of reconciliation came up, she'd leave. She had to go to one session with me as a result of the custody agreement.
The L that I was working with came to a mutual agreement with me that he'd no longer work with me after I challenged one of his billings. So now I need to find a new L.
D14 is doing very well in all aspects of her life. D16 is being challenged in school like she never has been before. As a high school junior, she's taking college chemistry and college calculus. Other than that she's doing very well.
Both D14 & D16 have had the occasion to be w/W when OM was with W. Both DD's have told me that they don't talk to OM and don't like OM. OM has estranged himself from his mother and sister b/c of the A.
And that's the sitch in a nutshell.
I want to say thank you for all the time and thought that you put in to responding to my posts. I don't know what to think about the whole idea of DB'ing b/c I don't feel like it "worked" for us. The D is not busted and I still take an occasional ride the roller coaster. I don't think that DB'ing was the right approach for us and as a result, I wonder if I blew the only opportunity that I had.
I wish you all the best in your efforts to save your M. I wish you a happy, healthy R w/S5 & D3 regardless of what happens.
