Your last post....doesn't sound like someone who is fully committed to their M to me. I don't mean to be nit-picky either...it just simply doesn't.
Saying this...."I'm just not putting the pressure on myself that if I stay to work things out that I will always have to stay." sounds to me like someone who is still giving themselves an OUT. It just doesn't "feel" like you are committed hon. It's a far cry from the words "for better or worse" dontchya think?
I believe I get where you are coming from, so don't think I'm just pounding away at ya here...I'm not. But, even saying something like "I'm taking one day at a time and doing the best I can in my M each day." sounds more committed than what you wrote.
I'm glad to hear though that you two at least had some pleasant communication about a touchy topic!
