No problem :-) That's why we let ya know what it is (and Lil, thanks for the unabridged description too...it was interesting.) I'm sure people who have this mindset have it to varying degrees as well, and use a variety of different avenues as their sexual output (tv, porn, computers...you name it.)
For me for some reason though knowing that this is something my H struggles with gives me some peace. Hopefully we'll work completely past it someday, but if we don't I am learning how to work with it.
