Heather is correct...my H does have an issue with viewing me as "Mom" sort of. He' has a whore/madonna issue.
If your H has an issue like this then...it's not upon you to solve it, it's completely HIS issue. What you will have to do is work on yourself on how to live with it, work around it, work on being genuine to yourself too.
I don't know that my H will ever really overcome his issue...but I am learning to find ways to work around it, so I don't feel so completely frustrated, so I understand it. It's great that you are seeing a C, that will be a great tool for you to learn how to cope with this. Your H though needs to be seeking therapy for this issue as well...if he will agree to.
Sorry you are going through this as well, it really sucks doesn't it?
